Friday, January 15, 2010

Know If Your Boyfriend Wants To Get Back With You

By Stewart L. Haney

Most of the time, girls who break up with their boyfriends realize later on that they made a mistake in breaking up with their ex boyfriends, and now wants to get back together with them but are not sure if their ex still wants to get back together with them after what happened. They end up just passing on the chance to rekindle their relationship with their ex simply because they are afraid of making a fool of themselves by getting back together with their ex, only to be rejected.

If you end up in this similar situation, then you're in luck, for there are ways you can really tell if your partner is still interested by getting back along with you. Here are two straightforward telltales that may help you identify if there's still an opportunity for you and your ex to start a new relationship.

Frequency Of Interaction

A boyfriend who still wants to get together again with his ex-girlfriend is most likely still in communication with her often, and will avoid to make any distance between him and his ex, just to be sure that he's still part of her life. This tactic is generally employed if a hubby doesn't need his ex to totally forget him, therefore the frequency of their interaction with each other. So that the more frequent that your ex stays in touch with you even if you're already split up, the bigger the probability that your ex is still interested by getting back along with you.

Ex Asks About your personal life

If your ex asks about your current dating status, chances are, he is still not over you and still wants to get back together with you. No man asks about a woman dating status if he wasn't interested in dating her. This is a clear sign of interest on the part of your ex in wanting to keep tabs on your social life, hence, the questions and updates on your current dating status.

Conversations About The Past

When your ex boyfriend talks about your past a lot, that is a clear indication that he is still clinging to your past memories and experiences together, which means that he may not be over you completely, and is contemplating on getting back together with you. Ex boyfriends usually use this type of technique in order to remind you of how much fun you guys had before, or remind you that you both were great together, anything to spark up your fire for him. Ex usually use these to also test if you are also feeling the same way, so they may ask you if you remember a certain moment in your past, and if you miss it. If this happens a lot, then you know already what your ex boyfriend is trying to do.

Conversations About Nothing

Ex boyfriends sometimes try to keep them connected to you in a number of ways, one of which is by trying to talk to you even if there is nothing to talk about. What this does is it simply keeps both of you in each other sights, making it difficult for you to forget him, which is basically the whole idea. You might notice that you have been conversing for hours about nothing, or about the same topic. If this happens, then your ex boyfriend might actually be trying to talk his way back into your heart.

There are a whole lot of other signs that you can try to check, but keep in mind that each person is different, so you should learn to feel them out since they all react and act differently than one another. Still, nothing beats asking your ex directly, but where is the fun in that, right?

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